He Doesn’t REALLY Want the Perfect Woman
He Wants These 3 Things from You Instead…
How much time do you
spend trying to be the kind of woman you think men want?
If you’re like most
women, it’s a LOT. You spend all this time making yourself look sexy and
attractive.
All this time presenting
yourself as fun, interesting, worldly, and not needy in the slightest. You
spend all this time showing him just how good you’d be for him… How amazing his
future would be if he chose you as the woman by his side…
And it doesn’t work. It
never works. WHY? Why do you work so hard… And the guy in your life just takes
you for granted, if he even notices you at all? It’s probably because he’s
immature, right? He can’t recognize a good thing until it’s gone. Or maybe… It’s
because you’ve been doing all the work for him.
If He Doesn’t Work for Your Relationship, He Won’t
Value It
Fact:
What men value most are
those things they have to work hard to get.
Hand a man a college
diploma, and he won’t value it as much as if he’d had to put in years of study
and effort to earn it.
Hand a man the perfect
girlfriend, and he won’t value her as much as if he’d had to woo her for weeks
just to get her to go out with him. This is why playing hard to get works.
But, as you’ve probably
already noticed…
There’s a BIG problem
with playing hard to get. That strategy stops working once he’s actually got
you.
Something happens when
guys decide they’ve won you. It’s almost like they think, “Game over.” Their
minds are already on their next challenge. What is going on?!
And how can you stop it
from wrecking your relationship?
It’s Not Just You—ALL Women Experience This
(That’s Why They Ask for Help)
Many women give up on
love. They never let themselves get too close to a man, for fear of scaring him
off. But other women try a different approach. They get help. Relationship
coach James Bauer is one of the people they turn to.
He noticed that many
clients were coming to him, complaining about guys who were blowing hot and
cold. Everything would be going great, and then it was like…
Something would change
overnight.
A guy who’d been warm,
affectionate and interested would suddenly become distant. He’d no longer have
any time for her. He wouldn’t smile in greeting. He’d stop making eye contact.
His kisses were brusque. Wanting to help his clients, James investigated.
And what he discovered
made sense of everything. He knew why these men were backing away. He knew what
they needed … and what they weren’t getting.
It didn’t come down to
anything wrong with these women.
Rather, it all came
down to something he called “The Hero Instinct.”
Most Women Do Something that Drives Men Away…
Without Ever Realizing It
One of the most wonderful
things about women is how naturally caring they are.
Look at you. You’re
always there for your guy. You look after him. You always make time for him.
You’d do anything for him.
You never realize that,
in the process…
You’re actually taking
something away from him. You’re taking away his purpose.
You see, he wants to be
your hero. He doesn’t want you to be his hero.
Men love heroes. Look at
how many grown men are still fascinated by Marvel comics and superhero movies.
Every man on Earth, from
the time he was a boy, dreamed of growing up to be the kind of hero who would
save the world—and get the girl at the same time.
Most men don’t get to
indulge their world-saving side in their 9-5 jobs.
Circumstances don’t call
for them to rip off their corporate ties and spring into action, revealing
their superman side. Maybe they can’t save the world. But they can still get
the girl.
Getting the girl is a
worthy challenge for an ordinary guy with the heart of a superhero. It takes
superhuman confidence. Superhuman charm. Superhuman immunity to pain. Now, all
he needs to find is…
A girl who needs a hero.
Do You Need a Hero? Let me guess… That’s not you.
You’re strong. You’re
independent. You can fix a leaky faucet. You can drive a stick shift. You can
take care of yourself. You’re never going to make that Jerry Maguire mistake of
looking for a man to complete you.
Instead, you have a lot
to offer a man. You’re generous. Kind. Loving. Giving to a fault. All you want
is to find a man who’s willing to receive all you have to give.
And that’s why heroes
aren’t showing up in your life. That’s why you’ve ended up with so many takers
instead. Guys who take everything you have and leave you high and dry. If you
want a hero, then you need to advertise for one. Here’s how.
3 Ways You Can Invite a Hero into Your Life,
Starting Today
1. Ask a guy for help.
Ask him for advice on
buying a new computer. Ask him to listen to that weird rattling sound that’s
started up in your car. Ask him to reach something on the top shelf. Then thank
him warmly, with a great big smile of appreciation. No, that doesn’t make you
needy. It makes you a woman with space for a man in her life.
2. Take pleasure in male company.
Guys love women who
appreciate men for just being men. So what if his apartment is a shrine to
sports? So what if he spends hours on his fantasy football team? So what if his
idea of a clean shirt is the one with the fewest wrinkles? He’s a guy. It’s okay.
You don’t need him to be more like you, because you’ve got the feminine side of
the gender equation covered.
3. Let him earn your respect.
Superheroes love
challenges. They don’t want to be given a gold medal just for showing up. They
don’t want your love handed to them on a plate. They want to earn it. There’s
one thing they crave even more than a woman’s eternal enduring love: A
challenge. So give him opportunities to prove himself. You don’t have to do the
work of winning him over. Sit back, relax, and allow him the pleasure of
winning your admiration.
Keep Learning
If that sounds like fun to you, click here to watch a video presentation about this relationship enhancement tool. It’s something you can learn once, but then use for the rest of your life.
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